Father’s Day

On this day fathers are honored. But the truth is it is an honor to be a father. An honor to be given a precious life to care for, understand, nurture, challenge, nudge, push, and love no matter what. No backup plan. My life does not change on this day, not one bit. I do not need a day to feel special for even in the grumpy moments the responsibility does not escape me. And I always feel the deepest gratitude. Rather, on this day, I send a silent prayer for strength, peace, and devotion for those in the “brotherhood.” You matter. And I send a prayer for those who want to be fathers but for some reason, it is not yet in the cards. Or for those who never got passed that step of not wanting to fail, repeat history, or hadn’t made sense of being fathered. Or for those who had a backup plan and left. I pray that someday you make sense of this complicated path and find your way back home.

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Many times I have written, spoken, or offered silently to the heavens that being a father is the only thing I have ever been certain of in this life. I cannot begin to answer, “why?” It just is and something has to show you that somehow it really is all connected.

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About Dr. John Panepinto

I believe in the pull of potential. That each day can be an expression of the vision we all have of our self of being who we truly want to be. I do not believe that people want to be less than. My sites share this theme of vision, living in our most important roles and responsibilities from imagination and creativity in a simple, practical way. I am committed to educating and serving, founded in principles of development, that people can use and practice in their every day lives.